Girlfriend still using dating site
I had my OKC profile for my entire 1 year relationship. I logged in fairly regularly out of habit and to do some quizzes and kill time. I didn't respond or meet up with anyone. The guy I was with didn't have an online profile we met through fiends - so he had no idea that I was doing this. Originally Posted by Eternal Sunshine. I'm in the same boat. The person I am seeing is on match regularly.
I check once in a while. It does bother me, but at the same time as was said Meanwhile, I will be doing the same OP, if it's bothering you, ask her about it in a forthright but non-accusatory way. Tell her one of your friends who is on that site saw her on it and ask her why she said she would delete her profile but then didn't.
I mean what else can you do? You need to ask her. I'd be totally pissed btw. Speaking from personal experience, this is a bad sign. I stuck it out and made an ultimatum last time this came up. She made another profile and stayed on the site. Began cheating while declaring love daily and pressuring me to shop for engagement rings. Not saying this is what yours is doing, but it's a very bad sign.
Would break up and move on. People who are truly happy with their SO, respect them and the relationship, don't cruise dating sites.
She could be feeding me a load of bull! Im going to feel so rubbish at work this weekend. Originally posted by jcowap View Post. Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So, love the people who treat you right, forgive the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason.
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June 29th, , Agreed with the above. Talk to her about it, but not in a confrontational way. Although I had largely forgotten that I'd had them and I was not active on them either.
But just talk to her. Originally posted by am View Post. I totally understand where your coming from and it does seem sketchy but at the same time you do seem a tad controlling with afew things. For example the facebook status.
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My ex and I didnt change our statuses to in a relationship for many months not for any reason but because we hardly got on facebook and when we did it was real fast and just didnt think anything big of it. Your sounding like you two just got engaged. If you demand all these things at once i wouldnt blame her for leaving. On a different note, the dating site. It would be understandable if she just forgot about the site and was too busy to delete it but the fact she is updating it is not cool.
That is understandable to talk to her about but the facebook status and meeting her parents i think your making too big of a deal. For atleast 6 months you want to be really easy going about things because if you come off controlling or demanding things too soon the relationship has not gone on long enough to make a big fuss breaking up. If you cant eat it or chew it. Pee on it and walk away".
Originally posted by Drewcious View Post. What would you do in my shoes? See what she says to updating her photos, then make a decision based on whats best for you. I wasn't going to be angry with her or anything. I was going to to ask her calmly and see what she said but to me it is big dealso defo want it sorting.
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If she agrees to not use it again then I'll see what happens and carry on with the relationship. In my experiance which when a girl keeps a guy a secret its either because she wants to keep her options open and isnt sure if she really wants a serious relationship OR she has someone else on the side or your the other guy on the side. Defenitely something to talk about but just make sure you dont come on too strong unless you have a reason and dont fall for her cutsie comments like "aww im sorry babe i just didnt think to or had time to remove it".
Well that doesnt explain the updated pictures Keep an eye for certain gestures that hint lying. Some are, not being able to look you in the eye when usually its not a problem. Playing with hair, some psychologists or FBI techniques say if the look or turn to the left for some reason it indicates lying. Easiest way is if she does manage to talk her way out of it remember word for word.