Dating a 22 year old virgin guy
IN fact, the stress of not having any of the above experience inhibits my efforts through other aspects in life such as job hunting, the gym, and when I was in college, school work.
22 year old virgin: Should I get it over with at a brothel in Nevada? (serious)
On top of that, I don't even really have any friends either. I'm just sitting at home all day attempting to look for jobs but in reality, I'm just sitting down miserably stressing out about so much stuff I 'missed' or haven't done. A lot of people say ,it's easy to get laid in college, but I screwed that one up pretty badly. I think it's an issue of shyness and social anxiety.
No one really cared to help me with those mental issues.
These problems became more persistent each year towards senior year where I absolutely hated going to any parties or events. In short, I'm not out there. So from all this, I'm not out there, but the stigma of being a virgin frustrates me more and more each day and I even feel aggressive inside sometimes.
The best choice for me now may be to find an escort from a brothel in Nevada. In a brothel, they are probably more professional and consider safety extremely important, so my chance of getting an infection will be a lot less than that of a street hooker or some random bar girl. A lot of people have said "you just have to wait for the right one.
I'm tired of people telling me that. The point of doing this would be to remove that burden from me and it may help alleviate a ton of my other anxiety issues. As for the long run, however, I can't decide if it would be the best option for me.
Has anyone else been in a situation like mine? Did you consider a prostitute? What became of it? There's my rant, again, not sure what kind of responses I'll get, but I'm at least glad I wrote a lot of this down. Originally Posted by KnjazVovk. You can if you want 2, but its not going 2 change anything. If you just want 2 do it for yourself, then do it for yourself. If you want 2 experience sex do it imo, however nothing is going 2 change afterwards. Get more confidence in yourself, approach girls, practice practice practice, eventually it will come. Even if it doesn't come naturally it can be achieved through hard work, just like BB'ing imo, just need 2 research and actually try.
When you become happy with yourself things will fall into place. If you loose it to some escort, everything else will still be the same after and bet you become more depressed like others have said. Strauss wrote about someone using this to get over this hump in the game, pretty sure it worked for him and he went on to develop some solid game.
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Flat out, if you think this is something that is holding you back and you feel you need to do whatever it takes to get past it, then I think its a viable option. The only real question is whether you think you can live with this decision or not. TBH, "your first" isn't really all the important to you once you get down the line. I mean, I couldn't care less about my first girl now.
I feel you on the social awkwardness, the less time you spend around other people the less in tune you become with people. I cant really stand most people so I lived a very large and important chunk of my life away from others. Very bad move, I suggest working on getting past yours asap. You got a degree, but don't even have a job yet, let alone searching for one.
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Instead you are feeling sorry for yourself. Let me tell you, if you lose it to some wh0re out there in Nevada you will regret it. Also, it does nothing for you. All you had to do was open up you're wallet, instead of working for the puss, whether it be in one night or over a few months.
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I suggest getting out of you're head first and finding a job. Good things come to those who wait. Get you're money first, then I promise you that you're roster will start to fill up. Forget how old you, you will break you're neck looking back into the past. You have a degree in Math for christ sake.
No girl is going to want some educated, unemployed, borderline depressed virgin, but some will want an educated, employed, and level headed one. You will never get a chic if you keep beating yourself up over it. Get out, find a job, stay in the gym, and you will meet some friends at work and maybe the gym. A nice girl will cross you're path someday, you just better be ready for once.
Pray that your little sister never asks you for sex advice. And then even she gets some before you do. The horror that comes from being in a movie theater when a sex scene begins on screen. Not because the sex itself bothers you, but because the friends with whom you went to see the movie must surely sense your inexperience and secret.
Hell, everyone in the theater probably knows. Do you understand anything about the world?! Nothing terrifies me more than being so close to someone and then watching them become a stranger again.
The Pros And Cons Of Being A 22 Year-Old Virgin
There are more details in some of my other posts - or ask about them here. Truth be told, it would probably be a turn off for me. Not that I think there's anything wrong with being a virgin at that age but its just not for me. But I also think I'm the exception and most guys would like it especially if the girl was attractive. I'm just not interested in virgins and never have been for some reason. Probably more attractive than her male counterpart. Originally Posted by crude. I'd be careful as to make sure I didn't hurt you emotionally. Because though I've never really seen it happen, the cliche is of course that a girl will inevitably "cling" a bit to her first cling emotionally.
I would wonder "why"? Especially if I saw long term potential. But a little honest conversation would relieve my curiosity. In a strictly physical sense, I'd see it as a very cool thing, and would likely very much enjoy relieving one of their virgin title. All times are GMT The time now is 4: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.
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Originally Posted by trin While I was reading this I had to check the user name a couple of times because I could've sworn I wrote it! Originally Posted by crude Typical female. So there is this other pretty girl in my class. I can't believe i'm jealous of another pretty girl!